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What can I do if I am afraid of the dentist?

Author: Gloss & Floss Dental Care® · Clinically reviewed by a dentist at Gloss & Floss Dental Care® · Last reviewed: 2026-06-29

Direct answer

If you are afraid of the dentist, tell the clinic before the appointment so the visit can be planned more calmly. You can ask for short explanations, breaks, a stop signal, slower pacing and clear pain control. Dental anxiety is common, and avoiding care for a long time often makes the next visit feel harder. A first appointment can focus on conversation and examination rather than treatment.

Why dental anxiety should be taken seriously

Dental anxiety can come from previous painful experiences, fear of injections, shame, loss of control, sound sensitivity or worry about bad news. It can affect both oral health and everyday wellbeing.

The goal is not to force treatment quickly. The goal is to rebuild trust, understand what triggers fear and create a plan that feels manageable.

What can help before and during the visit?

  • Tell the clinic that you are anxious when booking.
  • Ask for a calm first visit focused on information and examination.
  • Agree on a stop signal before treatment starts.
  • Ask the dentist to explain each step before it happens.
  • Use breaks when needed.
  • Discuss pain control and numbing before treatment.
  • Bring headphones or a support person if that helps and is suitable.

Dental anxiety triggers and support options

This table shows common anxiety triggers and practical ways they may be managed.
Trigger Support option Why it helps
Fear of pain Discuss local anaesthesia and pain control early. Clear planning reduces uncertainty.
Loss of control Use a stop signal and step-by-step explanations. The patient can pause treatment when needed.
Shame about teeth Start with a non-judgmental conversation. It separates care from criticism.
Fear of needles Discuss numbing technique, pacing and topical anaesthetic. Preparation can reduce injection-related fear.
Long avoidance Begin with a shorter first appointment. A manageable first step can rebuild confidence.

What happens at Gloss & Floss Dental Care®?

At Gloss & Floss Dental Care® in Stockholm, we encourage anxious patients to tell us what feels difficult before the visit begins. This helps us adapt communication, pacing and treatment planning.

The first step can be a calm examination, a discussion of symptoms and a plan for future treatment. If treatment is needed, we can break it into smaller steps and discuss pain control before starting.

When should you seek care?

Seek dental care even if you feel anxious if you have pain, swelling, a broken tooth, bleeding gums, loose teeth, bad taste or difficulty chewing.

Practical advice: You do not need to solve dental anxiety before contacting a dentist. The visit can be planned around the anxiety from the start.

Frequently asked questions

Is dental anxiety common?

Yes. Many adults feel anxious before dental visits, especially after previous difficult experiences or long avoidance.

Can I ask the dentist to stop during treatment?

Yes. Agreeing on a stop signal before treatment can help you feel more in control.

Do I have to start treatment at the first visit?

Not always. A first appointment can often focus on examination, conversation and planning.

Can sedation help with dental anxiety?

Sedation may be helpful for some patients, but it requires medical assessment and is not the first or only option for everyone.

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Disclaimer

This article provides general information from Gloss & Floss Dental Care® in Stockholm. It does not replace individual psychological care, medical assessment or a dental treatment plan.